Are you making your prospects talk?
I was on a sales appointment today that lasted just over an hour. I spoke for less than 10 minutes of it.
I asked a few questions, commented on a couple of things, and asked more questions.
The prospect answered the questions, elaborated on the answers and talked, and talked and talked. During this talking I uncovered his pain points, his areas of need, the consequences he’s facing if he doesn’t use our serve, how he makes decisions and his motivation strategies. For our next appointment, I’ll know exactly what I need to present and focus on.
NLP teaches you how to listen with fresh ears, to hear sentence structure and pay attention to sequence – not just what they are saying (content).
But let’s simply this.
If prospects are interested in buying your product or service, they will usually tell you what it will take to close them. All you have to do is get them talking about their needs, shut up and listen, and then explain how your product or service fills their need.
How many times have you read this? Yet, it’s been my experience most salespeople don’t do this because they don’t have any good questions prepared and they don’t shut up. Salespeople get too anxious and excited to share their product and service that they jump into the presentation.
What (good) questions are you asking your client prospects to get them to talk? What’s your ratio of listening to talking? What could you do to improve this?
Tags: joe soto, neuro-linguistic programming, neurolinguistic programming, NLP, nlp and business, nlp and persuasion, nlp blog, nlp for selling, nlp skills

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