Just because we’re on the same planet, doesn’t mean we’re from the same world.
One of the first lessons we learn in basic NLP training is “the map is not the territory.” Everyone experiences their world differently and as we mature we form our own “model of the world.” Or, you could just say we form our own reality that is based on our beliefs systems, our thinking patterns, etc.
Think about how your world changes from high school to now? I have had many friends over the years, but I look back today and there are only a handful who I stay in touch with on a regular basis. Although Facebook seems to be changing this.
Some of my old friends no longer share the same beliefs as I do, the same interests, or values.
As I’ve matured and continue to listen to those I perceive as successful (living life the way they want to live it doing something they love!), I’ve made it a conscious effort to surround myself with like-minded people.
I’m not talking about people who sing your praises every day. I’m talking about people who challenge you to achieve greater things.
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One Person has left comments on this post
Amen to that. As a long-time hypnosis and NLP enthusiast, I have seen this in action. I see it as a natural part of growing as a human being. I saddens me to see people labeled as a flip-flopper or the like when their very belief systems change. It seems as though some think that this is not a natural progression of an intelligent, thinking human being as they move through life. Good points here.