Posts Tagged ‘nlp and rapport’

What Inspires People to Take NLP Training?

Posted on March 3rd, 2010 by nlpdaily

I read an interesting article today that answers the question, “What inspires people to take NLP training?”
Here is a paragraph from it, and it’s an article worth reading:
“For a start, NLP training provides an in depth understanding of NLP itself. Neuro-linguistic programming (or NLP) is essentially the study of excellence and understanding how and why [...]

The Power of Presuppositions – NLP Language Patterns at Work

Posted on February 27th, 2010 by nlpdaily

NLP is full of fancy jargon, and you need a glossary of terms when attending a NLP Practitioner Training just to make sense of it all. “Presuppositions” are no exception, even though most think they know what it means.
Presuppositions are simply the linguistic equivalent of what most people call assumptions. But with a little more [...]

Are You Installing the Right Attitude into the Mind of Your Prospect?

Posted on February 6th, 2010 by nlpdaily

I’ve written about dealing with resistance on this blog a few times  (see part 1 and part 2 posts).  I have a class I teach on the subject so there is a lot more that we could discuss to clarify this important part of selling.
However, while it’s simple to think of inoculating objections as “overcoming [...]

NLP’s Most Powerful Presupposition For Successful Selling

Posted on December 23rd, 2009 by nlpdaily

Following a customer presentation gone south, have you ever found yourself saying things like, “They took me the wrong way,” or “They just didn’t understand what I was trying to say,” or “They didn’t get it,” or “The misinterpreted what I was meaning to say,” or “They were looking at it from the wrong perspective,” [...]

We Can’t Pay Attention to Everything…but We Can Pay Attention to More

Posted on December 17th, 2009 by nlpdaily

While the concept of change blindness suggests we can’t pay attention to everything and all details, we can pay attention to more.
More meaning, what’s in front of you that means something of value in interpreting, understanding, and reading them.
NLP encourages us to pay attention to more and form (calibrate) meaning from what we hear, see [...]

Using NLP to Shift Time & Space

Posted on December 13th, 2009 by nlpdaily

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) gives us amazing linguistic ingredients for crafting our language with purpose in front of each customer we approach.
What type of language shifts submodalities and uses presuppositions of TIME?
from now on, then, when, while, endless, everlasting, prolong, past, yet, stop, still, in the meantime, in the future, long waiting, look back, before, after, [...]

Does NLP Give Us Insight Into Detecting Lies?

Posted on December 10th, 2009 by nlpdaily

One of the foundational skills of NLP that you begin to hone in NLP Practitioner training (and beyond) is that of pattern detection. Once your sensory acuity sharpens, you can start to apply your new pattern detection skills in a variety of ways.
One of them is in identifying when someone is lying.
A person’s mouth is [...]

Uncovering What Your Customer Values

Posted on December 8th, 2009 by nlpdaily

NLP places a lot of emphasis on values. Although the process of eliciting values is relatively simple, it does require some verbal dexterity to do it well, with rapport and grace.
When you are trying to uncover and reach people at deeper levels, rapport is required and maintaining rapport during “tough questions” is sometimes not the [...]