Posts Tagged ‘nlp patterns’

What Inspires People to Take NLP Training?

Posted on March 3rd, 2010 by nlpdaily

I read an interesting article today that answers the question, “What inspires people to take NLP training?”
Here is a paragraph from it, and it’s an article worth reading:
“For a start, NLP training provides an in depth understanding of NLP itself. Neuro-linguistic programming (or NLP) is essentially the study of excellence and understanding how and why [...]

The Secret to Making Memorable Recommendations to Your Customers

Posted on February 26th, 2010 by nlpdaily

Metaphors. That’s the secret.
Surprised? You shouldn’t be. Using metaphors appeals the your prospects or customers right brain. It helps them visualize, instantly relate, and connect the dots to what you are saying or recommending. And it’s memorable.
The process behind a recommendation that’s rephrased framed with a metaphor is actually simple.
First, ask yourself: What am I [...]

How to talk to someone who is talking to themselves

Posted on February 20th, 2010 by nlpdaily

It’s easy to tell when your prospect or customer is talking to themselves because they will often lean their head to one side, nestling it on their hand or fist. Some call this the “telephone position” because the posture often resembles talking on the phone. Looking down to the left or right while doing this [...]

Boredom is boring.

Posted on February 10th, 2010 by nlpdaily

With all there is to see and do, there’s really no excuse for boredom.
Maybe it’s just a symptom. Or perhaps it’s a sign of creative starvation. It’s really just a pattern. You can interrupt it at any time.
Don’t settle for boredom. Get up. Get going. Do something. Start a project. Call a friend or family member. [...]

Use NLP to see more than you think

Posted on February 9th, 2010 by nlpdaily

Sam Harrison tells the story:
An old man witnessed a traffic accident, and in court the defense attorney tried to discredit his testimony.
“Mr. Johnson, I see you are wearing thick glasses,” said the lawyer.
“Yes sir, I do.”
“And you’re up in age, aren’t you?
“Yes sir, proudly, I’m 84 in May.”
“So exactly how far can you see, Mr. [...]

Is Actor Will Smith (and His Attitude) Worth Modeling?

Posted on January 6th, 2010 by nlpdaily

The short answer is yes. Watching (and learning from) this video below, you will quickly see why he’s one of the most successful actors of our times. I invite all NLPer’s to listen to his language patterns, where his focus is, notice his physiology, and perhaps the most important thing to model is his attitude.
I [...]

Using NLP to Shift Time & Space

Posted on December 13th, 2009 by nlpdaily

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) gives us amazing linguistic ingredients for crafting our language with purpose in front of each customer we approach.
What type of language shifts submodalities and uses presuppositions of TIME?
from now on, then, when, while, endless, everlasting, prolong, past, yet, stop, still, in the meantime, in the future, long waiting, look back, before, after, [...]

Does NLP Give Us Insight Into Detecting Lies?

Posted on December 10th, 2009 by nlpdaily

One of the foundational skills of NLP that you begin to hone in NLP Practitioner training (and beyond) is that of pattern detection. Once your sensory acuity sharpens, you can start to apply your new pattern detection skills in a variety of ways.
One of them is in identifying when someone is lying.
A person’s mouth is [...]

Uncovering What Your Customer Values

Posted on December 8th, 2009 by nlpdaily

NLP places a lot of emphasis on values. Although the process of eliciting values is relatively simple, it does require some verbal dexterity to do it well, with rapport and grace.
When you are trying to uncover and reach people at deeper levels, rapport is required and maintaining rapport during “tough questions” is sometimes not the [...]

More Proof You (We) Don’t Pay Attention

Posted on December 1st, 2009 by nlpdaily

Watch this video — all of it. You will be shocked (and shouldn’t be) by what you see. And by what other people don’t. The concept of change blindness (not being aware of big changes right in front of our eyes) is fascinating. A big part of NLP study is learning how to pay attention [...]